We are the most critical of ourselves. The most judgemental. The hardest. We always see what we don’t like, could’ve had, don’t have, wish we had … and the list goes on. We also always think that everyone looks at us with the same lens. They see all the same things that we are missing, or that are ‘wrong’ with us. Why is this? Because you know what ~ no one is actually thinking like that, because they are so busy judging and criticizing themselves to be looking at you. All they actually see of you is all they like and want.
You are the only one that judges you the way you do
If we honestly stop to think about this … that others are not and do not judge & criticize us the way we do ourselves – how does that make you feel?
Does it possibly make you think that maybe you not so bad … It does for me. I find myself thinking about a few things that I actually do like about myself because I am less worried about what people are thinking about me.
So I decided that in the spirit of February, and it being the month of love … here is a love letter from me to me …
I am my very own uniqueness
No one else can be me, no one
If you sit down, and write a little letter to yourself about all the things that you like, and even love about yourself ~ you will be surprised at how long it is.
I love how unique I am
Why don’t you write yourself a letter right now? Go on … I dare you.
Here’s to finding a few things to love about you