Why Your #NewYear #Goals End As #Fails

#happynewyear, #2019goals, #thisyearmywordis, #newyearnewme, #visionboard2019

Yes, honey, I know. We heard it last year and the year before that.

This time of year, we see and hear many people talking about what they are going to do different this year, how much money they are going to make and how much weight they are going to lose.

While our intentions are great, I am going to tell you why most of us fail to reach our goals.

People are afraid of failing.

People are so scared of change. There is more to this mindset thing than sending out positive woo woo thoughts. You have to do the work, and it’s a lot of work honey, let me tell you.

If the light shines just right, depending on the time, you can see a little bit of your shadow. But if it’s too bright, you would think it doesn’t exist; and if it’s too dark it consumes you, and you really can’t see it.

In order to bring about change and transformation, you need to see all sides, all aspects of what you are working with. Unfortunately, it is very difficult to see all of yourself unless you stand in front of a mirror. With a mirror, you have a view of all sides, things become clear, and you can see.

Most people fail to achieve their goals because they don’t have a clear view of what they are working with. They can’t see what their blocks, their unconscious fears and ways of self-sabotage, in addition to that, when people point them out to us, we get defensive, and put up even more blocks.

The solution

The solution is a mirror. It is a tremendous blessing to have people that really have the best of intentions for you help you grow. They are willing to let you know when you are contradicting yourself, not fully showing up, not being honest with yourself, and are just simply ignoring what’s really going on.

If you are conscious of the shadow aspects of yourself, you can use the world as your mirror, but you have to know how to take an honest look at what you’re reflecting.

Your body is also a great mirror that is constantly communicating and reflecting back to you, what its needs are and what is going on with you, mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually.

If you want to really grow, change, and manifest amazing things this year, you have to consciously see yourself and the world around you in a new way. You need to see and be aware of your shadow and work to transform it. It is in the alchemy of transforming your shadow that you will find true change and success.


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A'isha LaDon

Instructional Designer

Peace & Blessings beloved. I am Aisha LaDon. I am an Instructional Designer with a background in Brand Design, Graphic Design, Desktop Publishing, Web Design, Instructional Design, UI/UX. I am a bookworm and lover of all things creative and spiritual. Below you will find the articles that I have written here with the team at Crowned For Success. I pray that you find benefit in what we share. I love working with creative, spiritual womenprenuers that are here to inspire change in the world. I specialize in online course design, development, administration, management, and training with WordPress LearnDash and Moodle LMS Life is good, have a blessed day.

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